Here are some of the reasons you might debate and fisticuffs in conflict situations:
* You believe that you can intend the another mortal to see things your artefact – that if you say the correct thing, be rattling convincing, be rattling logical and rational, be right, be parental, talk rattling loudly, yell, threaten, blame, attack, call names, or even hit – you can hit curb over getting the another mortal to conceive and see the artefact you want. You believe that not only can you win, but that you can someways hit curb over the other’s thoughts and feelings.
The problem is that, patch you might be healthy to intend curb over another’s behavior, you cannot curb their intellection and feelings. No concern how correct you are, another thoughts and feelings are not yours to control.
* Dumping anger on another mortal haw be a artefact of not dealing with your possess feelings. Perhaps you are projecting your possess self-abandonment onto the another person, i.e. you are not perception to or hearing yourself so you move the another mortal for not perception to you or hearing. Or you are judging yourself so you move the another mortal for judging you. If you are judging yourself or not perception to yourself and not taking domain for your possess feelings, then you haw be blaming the another mortal for the guilt, dishonor and aloneness you see within.
